happiness
How to break your own heart versus
how to mend your broken heart.

"People strive for that perfect relationship, the perfect house, the beautiful body,
the approval of others, all in an attempt to be happy.
Sometimes these things make us happy;
other times, we stress over not having reached our goals,
or we reach them and find that we’re still not happy.
Other times, we focus so intensely on one goal that’s thought to bring happiness that we don’t have time for other things in our life that will make us truly happy. "
- http://stress.about.com/od/lowstresslifestyle/ss/happy.htm